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the real youWho are you?  I mean, who are you really?  Now let me ask a much safer question, who do people see you as?  Maybe people see you as the incredible business man who has it all put together with the perfect job, the incredible salary, the 401k, and the quarterly bonus.  Or maybe people see you as the super-hero mom.  You know, the mom whose Facebook page says, look at me all you other moms.  Take notes, cause I’m gonna kick your butts.  My kids will write books about how great their summers were when they grow older.  Pinterest was created because of my house.  Or maybe people see you as the college student who is going somewhere fast.  You get good grades, and you hold down a job while balancing sports and extra curricular activities.  But who are you really?

I was at Ikea the other day waiting in a ridiculously long return line when it hit me, who am I really?  This wasn’t a pity party, or way of  patting my own back.  If anything it was a reality check.  (to be honest, it helped pass the time too…)  I was wondering, who am I really, and where do I find my identity?

Henri Nouwen wrote in his book, In the Name of Jesus,

I am deeply convinced that the Christian leader of the future is called to be completely irrelevant and to stand in this world with nothing to offer but his or her own vulnerable self.  That is the way Jesus came to reveal God’s love.  The great message that we have to carry, as ministers of God’s word and followers of Jesus, is that God loves us not because of what we do or accomplish, but because God has created and redeemed us in love and has chosen us to proclaim that love as the true source of all human life.

That challenges me!  It strips away any proud thoughts that I am something amazing or uniquely special.  I am unique and special, but it is only because I am a child of God who was created in His image.  As followers of Jesus we have the incredible privilege to share with others the good news that Jesus died for them and that God loves them with a never ending, never giving up, unbreakable love.  Here’s the really good news.  You can just be you.  No pressure to be anyone other than who God made you to be.  It isn’t through any kind of crafty language, or cunning illustrations that people are going to connect with Jesus.  In fact, it is with you just being you.  Simple, right?  It may even be as simple as asking someone to come over for a backyard bbq.

Quit trying to look like you are someone incredibly special.  You already are, you’re a child of God.  You don’t need to pretend like you are something more than that.  Relax.

~Peter

Building on our legacy

Over the course of the next several days, I’d like to take a look at a few individuals  who have made a significant impact on our Christian History.  These individuals have lived exemplary lives and are worth talking about.  The issue is that very often we get hung up on the latest and greatest names.  Believe me I love these people too, the Francis Chan’s of the world.  But what about the St. Francis’ of yesteryear?  There is so much that we can learn from them and the contributions that they have made to the Christian faith.

No matter who you are, where you come from, or what language you speak, you have probably heard of a guy by the name of Saint Augustine.  Saint Augustine, before he was known as such was known as the son of Monica.  Monica’s little boy, Augustine, was really smart and he showed a ton of potential.  So much potential that his parents decided to invest everything they had into his education.  They gave up all of their savings in order to send him to the finest schools that money could buy.  Eventually his parents money ran out and he had to return home.  This wasn’t the end of his education.  There were others who saw incredible talent in Augustine.  He was able to go to Carthage to continue his studies and while in Carthage he became a student of rhetoric.  This means that he learned how to speak and write convincingly.  You could say that Augustine became a rock star communicator.

St. Augustine, Author of ConfessionsInterestingly enough, Augustine wasn’t at first concerned with what he was communicating.  His only concern was that he was communicating.  It was only after  reading Cicero, (a master speaker, and philosopher) that Augustine felt like the content of what he was communicating mattered just as much as the fact that he was communicating.  He became convinced that he also needed to seek the truth.

Soon, Augustine in his quest for truth decided that he would abandon his professorship in order to attain that which was most important, truth.  Augustine had two main issues with the truth that Christianity taught.  One issue was that the Bible seemed to present the truth in such a lowly way.  It didn’t fit into his neat little molds and forms that his background in rhetoric allowed for.  The second thing was that he couldn’t understand how if God was so good, that He could allow/create evil.  These were the issues that Augustine spent many years wrestling through.

Augustine decided that he would devote his entire life to Christ.  He would not be lukewarm about anything.  He would be completely sold out to the Christian faith.  One of the things that Augustine wrestled with in this decision was the fact that he knew this meant his life had to change.  See, Augustine liked the things of this world.  Augustine liked the women, the life, and every other thing that he desired.  This would have to change.  He struggled through an intense time where he had to figure out who was going to rule in his life.  Would it be Sin, or would it righteousness?  He eventually chose righteousness.

Free Will, Funny PictureAs Augustine’s fame grew, so did his platform.  He was eventually ordained to serve as Bishop of Hippo.  As Bishop of Hippo, Augustine began to make a huge impact on the Christian world.  He wrestled with thoughts and questions that have set up future generations of believers.  It is because of his time here that he has become one of the most influential theologians.  Two things that Augustine determined that have forever shaped our lives.  The first is that Augustine was a champion for Free Will.  He believed that man had a free will and was not a slave to whatever God wanted him to do.  This was huge.  The other major contribution that Augustine made was his Just War Theory.  This theory stated that there was a right time and also a wrong time to go to war.  For a war to be just it must never be fought over territorial ambitions, or to exercise power.  It must be fought and led by proper authorities and lastly it also must be motivated by love.     On top of these things, Augustine also made significant contribution to the literary world.  He wrote  many works, with one of his most famous works being “Confessions”.

Augustine has been one of the most influential theologians throughout the centuries.  But one of the most interesting things about Augustine is that he was a normal guy like you and me.  He wasn’t born with a halo around his head.  In fact, quite the contrary, this dude lived a wild life.  He grew tired of that, and found that he needed to change.  It was at the point of change that God grabbed a hold of him and rocked the world.

What would it look like if God got a hold of your life?  I bet He could rock the world through you too!

~Peter

A great resource to read up on Christian History is a book by Justo L. Gonzalez called, “The Story of Christianity”.  You can purchase it at Amazon.com here.  

Rehab Album Cover, Here’s a follow up to yesterday’s guest post.  If you haven’t read that, go check it out and jump back here and get in on the conversation.

One of the albums that I enjoy listening to is “Rehab” by Lecrae.  (You can purchase that here.)  The whole album is great but, one of my favorite songs on the album is “Background”.

Check out his video for “Background”

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It is lines like these that mess with my head…

It’s evident you run the show, so let me back down
You take the leading role, and I’ll play the background
I know I miss my cues, know I forget my lines
I’m sticking to your script, and I’m reading all your signs
I don’t need my name in lights, I don’t need a starring role
Why gain the whole wide world, If I’m just going lose my soul

I mean, for real… Why gain the world only to loose your soul along the way.  This messes with my head because to many people think that kind of thinking is crazy!  We know people who have sacrificed their family and their friends in order to step up another rung on the ladder.  We know men who have lost their marriages because they believed the lie that other women were telling them.  This may even be your story!

Lecrae throws it down in this song.  I don’t care if you are a pastor, a youth pastor, a church secretary, a plumber, a CEO, or a line cook… God honors humility.

The fear of the Lord is the instruction for wisdom, And before honor comes humility.

~Proverbs 15:33

Can you say this with Lecrae: “Matter of fact, just take my pen, here, you create my rhymes”?  That means setting aside your desires, your plans and your dreams in order to follow and live by God’s desires, plans, and dreams.   That is setting down and surrendering the rights to your dreams.  Wow!  I wish that I could say that was true in my life all the time.

What is most challenging about being humble?  Or maybe even a more difficult question is, Do you trust God enough to give him your dreams?

~Peter

I have a lot of tools in my garage.  There are countless tools.  I have tools to fix cars, tools to work the ground, tools to fix plumbing, tools to work with wood, and tools to fix electric and tools to do a ton of other tasks.

Several of these tools are ridiculously dangerous.  I’ll never forget the time when I saved my dad’s pointer finger from being severed on a table saw.  (That story later)  I have another friend who nearly lost his finger to a table saw.  Every time I operate a table saw I think about lopping my finger off.  I have a chainsaw that loves to rip through wood.  This thing is mean.  Since I heat my house with wood, I have spent a lot of time cutting up trees with this saw.  I have heard horror stories of people who have done incredible damage to themselves with their chainsaws.  Those thoughts run through my mind every time that thing rips!

As I have a garage full of tools to fix my house, garden, or vehicles, as a follower of Jesus there are certain tools that I have at my disposal.  I think that one of the most dangerous tools is prayer.

In the voice of prayer we can diminish others and elevate ourself.  Jon Acuff has a pretty funny blog post about the prayer shot block.  (quite the funny read)  Because we know and believe that prayer is powerful it can be incredibly tempting to use it like one uses a tool to fix their home, car, or yard.  Too often I use prayer as a tool to change God.

I can focus a majority of my prayers on changing God instead of praising God.  I can spend 80% or more of my time asking God to change this person, or give __________ to that person, or even to help me do __________.  It is good and right to be praying for others.  But it seems to me that we miss the boat when all we do is direct God to do this that or the other thing.

What about spending time praising God for who He is?  What about spending time thanking God for what He’s done in your life and the life of others?  What about spending time asking God to forgive you?  What about just being silent before God and listening to what He has to say?  Must you really hear yourself talk the whole time?

When most of your prayers begin with Dear God, please… there may be a problem.  

I might even go out on a limb and say that this is an effort to play god.  In a sense to be god over God.  Every time I see someone trying to be god it never ends well.

I am afraid that this is the pattern of my prayer life far too often!  It’s time to make a change.  Anyone else with me?

~Peter

A Russian iconic depiction of Jacob

Does anyone else have a problem when someone is talking with you and they say, “Sure, I’ll do that but only after you do ____________.”

That drives me crazy.

I feel like saying, “well, are you going to do it or not?  Yes or no.  It is rather quite simple.  Just make up your mind.”  But, I don’t.

We see this all the time.  It seems to show up in every area of life.  This mentality pops up in our relationships with one another, in the work place, in our neighborhoods, and in every other corner of life.

It may look like this:

  • I’ll mow the lawn when you make dinner.
  • I’ll play baseball with you when you clean your room.
  • I’ll listen to you after you drop me off at the movies and let me spend the night at my friends house.
  • I’ll tolerate you if you keep your dog off my lawn.
  • I’ll be your friend only as long as the popular people approve of it.
What would you add to that list?
In Genesis 28, Jacob adds one more to the list.  This one drives me crazy.  It just irritates me.  Check out what he says,
Then Jacob made a vow, saying, “If God will be with me and will keep me on this journey that I take, and will give me food to eat and garments to wear, and I return to my father’s house in safety, then the Lord will be my God.”
That seems to be a tall order!  I want to be comfortable on my trip.  I want my clothes to be provided, and I don’t want to experience any problems in travel.  These three items are no small task.  Think about the time in which Jacob lived.  That would be no small thing.  I’m in no way challenging the power of God, but why does Jacob feel it necessary to?
It seems to me that there are times when we put stipulations on God.  We say, God only when you do this, that, or the other thing will I turn to you and acknowledge your plan for my life.  In my opinion this is a dangerous way to live life.  This is a dangerous way to set up your relationship with God, one based solely upon stipulations.
What do you think?
~Peter

Dear Christian,

So, I know… today was a tough day for some of you to swallow.  The party voted on by “all good Christians” (emphasis added for sarcasm) didn’t put a president into office.  Well…  Get over it.  Here we stand on the cusp of a new presidency.   Unfortunately I hear too many people bantering and bickering over wether President Obama is the anti Christ, rather than how can we best pray for our new president?  Too many Christians want to cry over the fact that He isn’t like them, and he smokes!  

Well… Seriously, let’s get it together.  

I mean honestly, it is time for us who call ourselves; followers of the way,  Jesus Freaks, deacons, elders, disciples, pastors, sunday school teachers, young life leaders, FCA Huddle leaders, and most commonly- christians, to begin to be known for the things that we do than the things that we don’t do.  It is time that we are known for loving those that differ from us, than pointing out all of the differences that make us so disgusted by them.  In fact, it’s time for us to quit being disgusted by people who are different than us, and grow to love that difference.  See, it’s my prayer that one day that pot smoking hippy type will be standing next to me in heaven praising God.  

It’s my prayer that the person who I judged most will one day come to know the saving grace and the love of Jesus Christ!  Unfortunately when “we” christians make bone headed statements like, “President Obama is going to lead this nation to hell”, I have a feeling that we may be putting a roadblock in the way of that gossip girl, or that man interested only in greys anatomy.  Come on…

People don’t care what you know, until they know that you care.  

Come on Christian… Step up your game.  Get out there and love people…  

John 13:34-35  “So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other.  Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.”

I need to step it up!  Want to join me?  I hope so…

~Peter