Building on our legacy

Over the course of the next several days, I’d like to take a look at a few individuals  who have made a significant impact on our Christian History.  These individuals have lived exemplary lives and are worth talking about.  The issue is that very often we get hung up on the latest and greatest names.  Believe me I love these people too, the Francis Chan’s of the world.  But what about the St. Francis’ of yesteryear?  There is so much that we can learn from them and the contributions that they have made to the Christian faith.

No matter who you are, where you come from, or what language you speak, you have probably heard of a guy by the name of Saint Augustine.  Saint Augustine, before he was known as such was known as the son of Monica.  Monica’s little boy, Augustine, was really smart and he showed a ton of potential.  So much potential that his parents decided to invest everything they had into his education.  They gave up all of their savings in order to send him to the finest schools that money could buy.  Eventually his parents money ran out and he had to return home.  This wasn’t the end of his education.  There were others who saw incredible talent in Augustine.  He was able to go to Carthage to continue his studies and while in Carthage he became a student of rhetoric.  This means that he learned how to speak and write convincingly.  You could say that Augustine became a rock star communicator.

St. Augustine, Author of ConfessionsInterestingly enough, Augustine wasn’t at first concerned with what he was communicating.  His only concern was that he was communicating.  It was only after  reading Cicero, (a master speaker, and philosopher) that Augustine felt like the content of what he was communicating mattered just as much as the fact that he was communicating.  He became convinced that he also needed to seek the truth.

Soon, Augustine in his quest for truth decided that he would abandon his professorship in order to attain that which was most important, truth.  Augustine had two main issues with the truth that Christianity taught.  One issue was that the Bible seemed to present the truth in such a lowly way.  It didn’t fit into his neat little molds and forms that his background in rhetoric allowed for.  The second thing was that he couldn’t understand how if God was so good, that He could allow/create evil.  These were the issues that Augustine spent many years wrestling through.

Augustine decided that he would devote his entire life to Christ.  He would not be lukewarm about anything.  He would be completely sold out to the Christian faith.  One of the things that Augustine wrestled with in this decision was the fact that he knew this meant his life had to change.  See, Augustine liked the things of this world.  Augustine liked the women, the life, and every other thing that he desired.  This would have to change.  He struggled through an intense time where he had to figure out who was going to rule in his life.  Would it be Sin, or would it righteousness?  He eventually chose righteousness.

Free Will, Funny PictureAs Augustine’s fame grew, so did his platform.  He was eventually ordained to serve as Bishop of Hippo.  As Bishop of Hippo, Augustine began to make a huge impact on the Christian world.  He wrestled with thoughts and questions that have set up future generations of believers.  It is because of his time here that he has become one of the most influential theologians.  Two things that Augustine determined that have forever shaped our lives.  The first is that Augustine was a champion for Free Will.  He believed that man had a free will and was not a slave to whatever God wanted him to do.  This was huge.  The other major contribution that Augustine made was his Just War Theory.  This theory stated that there was a right time and also a wrong time to go to war.  For a war to be just it must never be fought over territorial ambitions, or to exercise power.  It must be fought and led by proper authorities and lastly it also must be motivated by love.     On top of these things, Augustine also made significant contribution to the literary world.  He wrote  many works, with one of his most famous works being “Confessions”.

Augustine has been one of the most influential theologians throughout the centuries.  But one of the most interesting things about Augustine is that he was a normal guy like you and me.  He wasn’t born with a halo around his head.  In fact, quite the contrary, this dude lived a wild life.  He grew tired of that, and found that he needed to change.  It was at the point of change that God grabbed a hold of him and rocked the world.

What would it look like if God got a hold of your life?  I bet He could rock the world through you too!

~Peter

A great resource to read up on Christian History is a book by Justo L. Gonzalez called, “The Story of Christianity”.  You can purchase it at Amazon.com here.  

Bleeding KneeMy kids have fallen down- many times.  In fact it happened recently.  Noah fell and scraped up his elbow pretty badly.  When we were trying to bandage it up he said, “IT BURNS LIKE LAVA!”  Ah to have the mind of a six year old again…

My kids have made mistakes.  They have written on walls, gotten pen on the couch, spilled milk, disobeyed, talked back, and been obstinate.  They have found that there is a whole lot of life that they want to explore and boundaries that they want to push.

These are the times as parents that are incredibly hard, right?  When your kid is in pain, pain so bad that it can only be likened to “burning like fire”, you want to take that away for them.  You wish that you could bear the pain on their behalf so that they didn’t have to feel it.  When I watch one of my kids fall, my whole body cringes, not because I am hurting, but because I know that they will be.

It is hard as a parent to watch and experience your children disobey, make poor decisions, and mistakes.  If you don’t believe me ask any parent of a teenager, they will tell you it is hard!

These are the moments when parenting is tough.

It is in these moments that parents have to step in and show their children that their is a better way.  There is a safer way to get from one side of the pool to the other than by running.  There is a reason why we don’t color with markers on the couch.  There is a reason why we eat over our plates.  All of this is for a reason.

When our children disobey, as parents we have to have the difficult discussion about why obedience is important.  We have to discuss why attitude is everything.  We have to talk about forgiveness.  We must teach our kids how to say sorry.  All of these things are important to teach lovingly and graciously to our children.

The Prophet Ezekiel
The Prophet Ezekiel by Michaelangelo

In the book of Ezekiel, God speaks through the prophet Ezekiel and tells his people that they haven’t been shepherding, or taking care of His people.  God reveals the condition of the shepherds heart as well as the condition of the flock.  Neither one is doing very well.

You eat the fat and clothe yourselves with the wool, you slaughter the fat sheep without feeding the flock. Those who are sickly you have not strengthened, the disease you have not healed, the broken you have not bound up, the scattered you have not brought back, nor have you sought for the lost; but with force and with severity you have dominated them.  They were scattered for lack of a shepherd, and they became food for every beast of the field and were scattered.

~Ezekiel 34:3-5

God speaks through Ezekiel and is trying to get the attention of those who are taking care of God’s flock, or God’s people.  This passage is challenging to me both as a parent and as a pastor.  It makes me ask the question, am I caring for the people that God has entrusted to me?

What about you? I don’t care if you are a pastor, or a parent.  A father, or a friend.  Are you lovingly guiding and caring for those that God has placed in your life?  How do you help your kids, friends, etc… know that you care?

~Peter

How often are you on Facebook?

Do you have the app on your phone?

How many friends do you have?

These are all interesting questions.  There was some research done that showed that certain Facebook users are incredibly influential and actually drive a majority of the content that is written on Facebook.

Here are three things I picked up from this info:

  1. Being a PowerUser is not equal to being a Facebook addict
  2. PowerUsers are contributors not just consumers
  3. PowerUsers focus on one or two of Facebook’s features.

Facebook Stats: Infographic

What do you think?  Are you a PowerUser?  What can we learn from this?  You can leave a comment by clicking here.

~Peter

You can't Please EveryoneYesterday morning I was driving in to work and I could feel a tightness in my chest.  I thought to myself, here it comes–The Big Chest Grabber.  You know the one where you find yourself laying on your back in an emergency room… Yeah, that one.

I was feeling it.

STRESS…

It all began that morning when I placed my sock covered foot in a puddle my refrigerator was making.  Great.  Two days ago roofers tore my whole roof off and put it back on.  Now there is a 40 yard dumpster sitting in my driveway.  And I was waiting for the roofing contractor to come fix the hole in my ceiling that his crew made over my desk.  He was late.  Now I was late.  I had an appointment at 9am which I had to punt.  I had a 10am appointment which I couldn’t punt.  I was leaving the house for a few days so that I can be over in Jersey for the outreach this weekend. Which left me thinking, “do I have all of the clothes I need?”

I was driving away from this whole situation and driving towards a whole different situation.  Each situation is asking me to contribute/give to them.  The problem is that I can’t contribute/give to both equally at the same time.

Have you ever felt that?  Have you ever felt like there just isn’t enough of you to go around?  Yeah, I’m guessing you have.

I found this video over at YouTube.  As I was watching it I couldn’t help but think about how much work it takes to set this all up!  This is a time-lapse video of the Staples Center in LA.  It is shot over the span of 4 days, from May 17th-20th.  6 playoff games were played in this time span.

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People pleasing feels a bit like that video, doesn’t it?

There is one space available.  And there are three teams that vie for time in that same space.  The place is always in a state of construction.  It is always moving and being shaped and formed.  It is always giving.  I got tired just by watching it!  That is what people pleasing can feel like at times-an arena that is shared between three teams and two different sports.

Proverbs 29:25 says, “Fearing people is a dangerous trap, but trusting the Lord means safety.”

I’ll admit it.  There are times when I want to please people so badly that it causes me to walk right into the trap.  The awesome part is that Jesus can help us walk right out of the trap.  Proverbs tells us that all we need to do is to trust God.  Trust God and we will walk into safety.

So, back to the story.  Yesterday when I realized why I was so tense, I literally had to shut off the radio and ask God to forgive me for not trusting Him with my schedule, with my life, and with anything else that I was holding onto.  When I gave up the right to own my day, and when I let God speak into it and work through it, I was able to let go of my chest.  The tightness began to disappear.

How are you doing today?  Are you so busy trying to please people that you are walking right into the trap?  You can leave a comment by clicking here

~Peter

Liquid Church DropletTomorrow something really exciting is going to take place.  This weekend a crew of 215+ volunteers are going to descend upon the New Jersey Aids Service (aka the Eric Johnson House) and get cracking on an extreme makeover.  Why you might ask?

That’s a great question.  Pastor Tim Lucas, lead pastor at Liquid Church, explains that best.  You can watch it here.  Or you can download the audio version here.

In Luke 17:11-19 we see Jesus interacting with some people who were untouchable in His day and age.  These were the lepers.  They were the social outcasts who no one wanted around.  No one even wanted to be near them.  But Jesus did.  In fact Jesus loved the untouchables.  The question is, Do we?

The modern day lepers are those people with HIV Aids.  This weekend we are going to break into our community with nothing but LOVE for a select group of people who most people think are outcasts and untouchable.  Most people wouldn’t go near them with a ten foot pole.

IT’S TIME TO BREAK SOME POLES!

Check out the promo video below of what is going to go down in just a few short hours!  There are still spaces available to sign up and join us.  Sign up here.

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Remember, “It is not a sin to be sick.”

~Peter

UPDATE:

We now have 293 volunteers!  INCREDIBLE!

Check out these articles written about the outreach over at

Rehab Album Cover, Here’s a follow up to yesterday’s guest post.  If you haven’t read that, go check it out and jump back here and get in on the conversation.

One of the albums that I enjoy listening to is “Rehab” by Lecrae.  (You can purchase that here.)  The whole album is great but, one of my favorite songs on the album is “Background”.

Check out his video for “Background”

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It is lines like these that mess with my head…

It’s evident you run the show, so let me back down
You take the leading role, and I’ll play the background
I know I miss my cues, know I forget my lines
I’m sticking to your script, and I’m reading all your signs
I don’t need my name in lights, I don’t need a starring role
Why gain the whole wide world, If I’m just going lose my soul

I mean, for real… Why gain the world only to loose your soul along the way.  This messes with my head because to many people think that kind of thinking is crazy!  We know people who have sacrificed their family and their friends in order to step up another rung on the ladder.  We know men who have lost their marriages because they believed the lie that other women were telling them.  This may even be your story!

Lecrae throws it down in this song.  I don’t care if you are a pastor, a youth pastor, a church secretary, a plumber, a CEO, or a line cook… God honors humility.

The fear of the Lord is the instruction for wisdom, And before honor comes humility.

~Proverbs 15:33

Can you say this with Lecrae: “Matter of fact, just take my pen, here, you create my rhymes”?  That means setting aside your desires, your plans and your dreams in order to follow and live by God’s desires, plans, and dreams.   That is setting down and surrendering the rights to your dreams.  Wow!  I wish that I could say that was true in my life all the time.

What is most challenging about being humble?  Or maybe even a more difficult question is, Do you trust God enough to give him your dreams?

~Peter

Recently, I read a quote that stopped me dead in my tracks. The quote said this:

Too often we ask God to glorify His name with ours.

After reading it, I went back and read it again, and again. I could not stop thinking about that quote.  Then I read Psalm 115:1 which says, “Not to us, O Lord, not to us, but to Your name goes ALL the glory for your unfailing love and faithfulness.”

Then I began thinking of all the times in my life where I was guilty of asking God to glorify His name with mine. I thought of the times when I have been teaching a group of teenagers about the truths of God’s word and I want them to tell me they liked my teaching. I thought of when I put together a worship service and I nearly expected people to compliment my creativity. I thought of when I’ve desired to go on mission trips to 3rd world countries and make a difference, when deep down inside what I really wanted was for people back home to comment on my “boldness” and “willingness” to follow God. The list could go on and on. Sadly, I began to realize how often I’ve attempted to stick my name in the limelight.  I realize that doing that casts a shadow on God’s glory.

Now, I have a feeling that I am not the only one that struggles with this. One of the reasons is because our culture is full of opportunities to capture some glory…

Sports companies like Nike, Reebok, and others are willing to pay professional athletes ridiculous amounts of money to promote their line of shoes, clothing, etc.  In music/media we spend money on iTunes and other similar downloading programs which give a portion of the money to the writing artist and keep a portion for themselves. Our culture is obsessed with sharing dividends, or for lack of better terms-glory.  Now, I want to clarify: I am not trying to criticize our culture’s way of promoting products for business. What I am saying is, that’s not the way that God works.

God clearly deserves ALL the glory in our lives. It is HE who has the power to save us not the other way around! But, instead of giving God all the glory, we have been mentally programmed to try and take some ourselves. The Church is not exempt, in fact, we must be very aware of this temptation because this mentality could easily rise up within the Church. When the people of God attempt to steal God’s glory it points others in the opposite direction of God.

Is this something you’ve struggled with? Unfortunately, I have. What areas of your life do you need to re-evaluate to make sure that God is getting ALL, not just some of the glory?

Youth Pastor Crisman KoechigCrisman Koechig is the husband of his wife, Ashley. A student of Toccoa Falls College. And a Youth Pastor to his awesome students @ Family Worship Center in Indiantown, Florida.

Here is an excerpt from the book, The Grace and Truth Paradox by Randy Alcorn.

Welsey Allan Dodd tortured, molested, and murdered three boys in Vancouver, Washington, fifteen miles from our home.

Dodd was scheduled to be hanged–the first U.S. hanging in three decades–shortly after midnight, January 4, 1993.

At dinner that evening, both our daughters, then eleven and thirteen, prayed earnestly that Dodd would repent and place his faith in Christ before he died.  I agreed with their prayer…but only because I knew I should.

Randy Alcorn, AuthorI stayed up and watched.  Reporters from all over the country crowded around the prison.  Twelve media representatives were firsthand witnesses to the execution.  When they emerged thirty minutes after Dodd died, they recounted the experience.

One of them read Dodd’s last words: “I had thought there was no hope and no peace.  I was wrong.  I have found hope and peace in the Lord Jesus Christ.”

Gasps and groans erupted from the gallery.  The anger was palpable.  ‘How dare someone who has done anything so terrible say he has found hope and peace in Jesus?’ Did he really think God would let him into heaven after what he’d done?  ‘Shut up and go to hell, child killer–you won’t get off so easy!’

The idea of God’s offering grace to Dodd was utterly offensive.

And yet…didn’t Jesus die for Dodd’s sins just as He did for mine?  No sin is bigger than the Savior.  Grace is, literally, not of this world.  I struggled with the idea of God saving Dodd only because I thought too much of myself and too little of my Lord.

I’d imagined the distance between Dodd and me as the difference between the South and North Poles.  But when you consider God’s viewpoint from light-years away, that distance is negligible.  In my standing before a holy God, apart from Christ… I am Dodd.  I am Dahmer.  I am Mao.

It is so easy to sit and judge other people.  Someone recently said, it is easy for me to condemn the sins that I don’t struggle with.  Too true right?  It is easy to feel like I am better than everyone else because I don’t do what they do.  Let’s take a step back.  What does Jesus say?  Check out Matthew 7:3-5

Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ and behold, the log is in your own eye?  You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.

I am one of those people.  I have become incredibly god at judging other people’s specks while wandering around with a nail in my own eye.  This little book by Randy Alcorn, is well worth the read.  Put this book on your amazon wish list.

For those of you who are recovering judge’s… It’s time to set the gavel down.  Step down out of the bench and come alongside of those who suffer.  Let’s stop throwing stones at one another and graciously help bring one another to the cross of Christ.  It is at the cross where we can find forgiveness and grace.

Which is more difficult for you, telling truth or giving grace?  I’d love to hear your thoughts…

~Peter

Artwork Image of Thomas a KempisA friend of mine recently told me this, “It is none of your business what others think about you.”  I thought that was pretty insightful.  It felt freeing to me.  I don’t need to care what you think of me, because it isn’t my business anyway.  It’s true right?

Then I read what Thomas a Kempis wrote in his book The Imitation of Christ.  He writes, “Place all your trust in God; let Him be your fear and your love.”

Too often we place our trust in what others think of us.  Or what we can do for others.  In fact we allow ourselves to be defined by what others think of us.  The reality is that we need to place all of our trust in God.  That includes trusting God with our identities.  When we allow others to occupy the place in our mind that is rightfully God’s we do ourselves and God a huge disservice.

So what do you think?  Who is shaping your identity?  Do you have an identity crisis on your hands?

~Peter

Last Saturday, I decided to take the kids to the park for a picnic.  This was no small undertaking since Momma was gone for her mother’s day trip.  We had a blast!  We picnicked, and the kids played in the park and then played in a stream.  It was wonderful.

I found my self being rejuvenated by the time that I was spending with my kids.  I laid with my back on the blanket, holding my 1 year old daughter above me in the air.  She was cooing, laughing and drooling all over me.  It was incredible, and I loved every moment of it.

I was on the phone the night before talking with a mentor buddy of mine and he asked me how my soul was doing.  We had a long conversation about that and then he challenged me to make sure that I was playing well too.  He was concerned that I was finding rest and joy in life as well.  This picture was the moment I realized that this was exactly where I needed to be.  In this moment I was so keenly aware of how much God has blessed my life.  I am so thankful!

Trees on Blue Sky

What a day.  I brought the camera along with me to snap some pictures of the kids.  We had a blast with that.  It turned into a little mother’s day present too!  Here is what we gave her.

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What did you do for Mother’s Day?  Even more importantly, how do you refresh your soul?

~Peter

Girly Picnic BasketHere’s my only issue… Why is it that the picnic basket I had looks like this?  Couldn’t we find one that was a bit more manly?  Maybe looked more like this?