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So, to borrow a theme/idea from Pete Wilson, i figured from time to time, I would inform you/remind you why Tiffany and I had kids.  See, having kids has so many advantages.  To those of you who are married, and waiting to have kids…  Just jump in, have em.  There’s all kinds of great advantages (other than tax rebates).  

Like for instance, today, Noah (Our 2 1/2 year old) came in to our bedroom this morning at 5:30 in the morning.  Nothing says good morning like an alarm that you don’t have to set the night before, and also an alarm that you never know when it is going to wake you up.  You’ve got to love that.  

Be not deceived, we were not singing happy birthday to him... but to his dog!

This is reason #1 why we had kids…

 

Have you ever felt like you just don’t stop.  Of course you have.  We all feel this way from time to time.  There are times in my life when I feel like my body is moving even when I am standing perfectly still.  It’s like when we reach to our pocket because we think that we feel our cell phone vibrate, even though it never physically vibrated.  They have a medical term for that now.  It’s called phantom vibration.  Well, I think that this occurs in our lives too.  We can get going so fast and in such a hurry, that we blow right through the times of rest and relaxation because we are feeling phantom “vibrations”.  Our minds are so busy thinking of what tomorrow may bring, or what yesterday held that we don’t actually have time to REST and REFLECT on the RIGHT NOW, ENJOY the RIGHT NOW, EXPERIENCE the RIGHT NOW, and SEE what God may have for the RIGHT NOW.

Try it.  I dare you to.  Experience the right now.  Remove distractions, and get in the RIGHT NOW.  

I need to.  I’m still feeling “phantom vibrations” from last week, let alone yesterday.  It’s time we slow down and connect with one another, and with our God.  

Let me know how it goes.

~Peter

 

Tiffany and I are planning on going to her parents house on Memorial Day.  Then we are going to see some friends from NJ.  

What are you doing this year for Memorial Day?  Do you have any Memorial Day traditions?

And here is a secondary question…  Seeing as how many people have bar’Bques, or cookouts, what is your favorite thing to have off of the grill?  

 

So, as I said earlier, Tiffany and I have been going pretty hard and at a pretty fast pace recently and we decided that we needed a little time to spend together as a couple.  This was awesome!  Let me tell you… We just laughed together, listened to one another, held hands with one another, walked around with each other, and just spent some quality time together.  The key words in that last sentence were “one another”.  We did stuff together.  I love Tiffany so much, and it was awesome just to be able to hang out together for a little while.  We had a blast.  

We went on a couple day trips.  The first day we went to NY City.  This was great.  We’ve been talking about doing this for a long time.  Finally we did it.  We went into the city and just walked around and got lost.  I got yelled at by a cop on a horse for something I didn’t do, and we had an awesome time.  I almost met Ryan Cabrera, and then I was like, ah, who cares.  So here are a few pictures from New York.

I was craving a dirty water dog...

So, here was the only annoying thing about being in NY.  People tried to sell me everything.  They wanted me to buy, bus tours, maps, T-Shirts, comedy tickets, and any other sight-seeing paraphernalia.  Here’s what bothered me though.  Do I really look that different that I stand out from the melting pot of america?  Do I talk that differently?  Do I have the deer in the headlights look or something?  

Have you ever been in a situation where you just clearly don’t belong?  What was it?  

It made me think though, this is how it should be for each one of us as Christians here on earth.  The Bible tells us that we are strangers in this place.  This is not our home.  We eternally will be in Heaven, not here on earth.  As a Christian, people should be looking at me and saying, hmm… he’s not like this world.  

Just a few observations from my trip to NY.  

Any thoughts?

~Peter

So, the other day we had a fundraising luncheon at church to help support our student center upgrades and renovation project.  We decided to have Soup, Salad and a bread bar.  This was a great plan so I thought.  The week before we only had 30 people signed up.  We decided to go ahead and prepare food for 200.  Well… Let me tell you what that is like.  Tons of fun… We made 10 gallons of soup, grilled 20 pounds of chicken, washed/sliced about 30 pounds of lettuce, and made 3 gallons of dressing.  It was awesome.  Well we had some good friends the Chester’s come over and help us cut, peel, dice, and slice all of the many ingredients.  Here are a couple pictures.  After all of this, Tiffany and I took 3 days off to be by ourselves.  Pictures will follow for that too! But first the 10 pounds of carrots!

 

After all was said and done, and the dust cleared on Sunday we raised over 800 dollars, which is being matched by someone!  We raised $1600!  I need to thank Bryan Rhoads, and Matt Thompson in particular for giving up so much time and helping do tons of work!  Also, to all of the students who served, cut, cleaned, washed, setup, tore down, moved, plated, cupped, poured, and helped on sunday, we are so thankful for each of you!  You guys rock!

~Peter

So, tomorrow marks the culmination of the 6 week Focus on Your Family campaign that we did at our church.  Tomorrow and Sunday we will be hosting and teaching a Charting Your Families Spiritual Course seminar.  This whole emphasis on the family has got me thinking… 

How many kids do I want to have?  Or how many kids did I think that I wanted to have?  Noah and Grace are awesome.  I love them like crazy.  Do I want anymore kids to love like crazy?

How about you, how many kids do you want to have?  If you already have a herd, how many did you plan on having?  

I don’t know.  I think it’s interesting to hear why some people only want X amount of kids.  

So what about you.  Let me hear you!

~Peter

What do you think about when life is difficult?  What is the first thing that your mind does when crisis decides to pay you a visit?  Do you jump into a panic?  Do you loose sleep?  Or maybe you are the complete opposite, maybe you hibernate to get away from it all.  Endless tears?  Continual anger?  What is your response to crisis? 

I’ve been reading a book called “The Man God Uses” by Henry and Tom Blackaby.  It has been a great book so far.  I am not all that far into the book.  But I had to stop and think about this line of thought that they’ve got going on here.  Check this. 

“Character is not shaped by crisis; it is revealed in crisis.  When crises occur, you can discover more about yourself as you listen to the words that come out of your mouth, as you see what actions you take, and as you monitor your attitude and evaluate how Christlike it is.” 

WHEW.  Better tighten your belt a few notches. 

How does that resonate with you?  How have you dealt with crisis lately?  Have the words that come from your mouth and the actions that you take, and the attitude that you display all been more like Christ, or more like man? 

Please don’t make me answer.  I’m sure we won’t be happy with the answer!  At least, I’m not. 

But here’s the great news.  You and I are just works in progress.  Romans 5:20 reminds us that “where sin abounded, grace abounded much more.”  Right now you have the opportunity to turn this crisis that you are experiencing right now into a tool that molds you and makes you more like Christ. 

So, maybe crisis or difficult times will never be fun.  That’s probably true.  However, on the flip side, every crisis I have gone through, God has been there with me the whole time.  Faithful as the day is long.  So, I guess we need to think a little before we throw our hands up in anger, or go hibernate till the storm is over.  I guess there is a lot to be learned. 

What do you think?

~Peter

 

So, recently my family and I were blessed with an incredible gift.  Someone came to us and said, “my husband and I would like to get you a membership to the YMCA for the year.  Is that something you think you would like?”  

Well, Tiffany and I were blown away.  Totally pumped.  Well last night was the first opportunity that we’ve had to go to the gym.  Interesting to say the least.  We both got kicked off of our particular torture mechanisms, known by most as elliptical machines…  No, we weren’t doing anything crazy on them… apparently you need to sign up to beat your body up here at our Y.  Anyhow, this morning at 8 in the morning I had a fitness evaluation.  Lets just put it this way, some sections I was an A, and the rest were about C’s or maybe even D’s.  

This woke me up.

How about you, if you had to think about it, how is your physical fitness?  

“Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own?  For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.”  1 Corinthians 6:19-20

So, in my mind it isn’t that I am torturing my body on the elliptical anymore, I am glorifying God in my body.  I am beautifying the temple of the Holy Spirit who lives inside of me by taking care of my body better.  

Plus, I’m sure that Tiffany won’t mind either…

~Peter

 

Here’s what we are going to do.  I found this video that is pretty neat.  It is about a minute or so.  Watch it then comment on how it speaks to you?  What emotions does it leave you feeling after you have seen it?  What thoughts does it make you think of?  It struck me in a particular way.  I will post about that later, however, I’m interested to see how it strikes you…  This could be neat.

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