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It was really good to be with everyone last night at the Five.  There is just something about getting together and praising God!  It was a great night.  I was really excited to see all you guys there.  As you know one of the things we value at the Five is conversation, and relationships.  The church does not exist to only meet together for one hour a week only to return again the next week for another hour.  The church exists to be more than that!  We should be encouraging each other, praying for one another and meeting the needs of those we find ourselves surrounded with…  

So, one of the things we like to practice is an open line of communication during our teaching times at the Five.  Each week I encourage you to text any questions or comments that you may have so that we can interact with them here on the blog.  

Last night we continued in our series Raw Worship.  We picked up in Psalm 51 and looked at what true repentance really means.    If you weren’t able to be at the Five, head over here and listen, then join the conversation below…

Here was the question we received last night….

If everyone is born in sin what happens to the babies that die in birth?  Are they going to hell?  Or how does that work?

I need to start off by saying this is a very difficult question which the finest and brightest of theologians still do not agree on.  So for me to think that I am going to solve this question, that is going to be a tough one…  However, I can try to give you some insight into what I think is going on here.  

Psalm 51 is written by David after he is confronted by the prophet Nathan for committing adultery with Bathsheba…(read about that here in 2 Samuel 11 & 12)  One of the consequences for David’s sin is that the child was to die.  “The Lord struck the child that Uriah’s wife had born to David, and he became ill.” -2 Samuel 12:15  While the child is sick and dying, David is beside himself and fasting and just a real mess, as you can imagine.  Once he hears news of the child dying, David gets up washes up, cleans up and eats.  His servants are a little perplexed by these actions and they ask him what’s up?  He says, “Now that he is dead, why should I fast? Can I bring him back again?  I will go to him, but he will not return to me.”  This seems to imply that David has an eternal perspective, or eternal hope that he will see his son in heaven one day even though he died.  

Many people also believe that there is an age of accountability.  Meaning that there is a point in time when children just do not know that they are sinning.  This is a difficult thing to nail down, because then you have to ask yourself, well what is that age?  Is it four or five?  Could it be three?  However, this makes a lot of sense to me.  

Personally, I do believe that when babies die they go to heaven.  Above all else I rest assured in the fact that God is a good God.  He is not shy in lovingkindness.  He has great concern for children (See Matthew 19:13).  God cares more for our children than we could possibly ever!  So, I know that this doesn’t answer/solve the problem, but I hope it helps… 

~Peter

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All in all I am a fairly handy guy.  I know my way around most tools… Well, I’ve officially determined that I don’t know my way around one specific tool…  THE IRON.  Today while Tiffany was at work, I thought I would be a good husband and iron a few of my shirts… Well, let me tell you what, this is one of my least favorite household chores!  I would say this is the second or maybe third time to ever IRON!  So, Here I give you my final product.

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What is your least favorite household chore?  What is the hardest one for you to accomplish?

Still Wrinkly…

~Peter

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As usual, here is the rundown from last night’s service.  Honestly, Sunday night was kinda funky, huh?  There were just so many crazy things happening.  Sound issues, technical issues, and all kinds of strange things… I know that I was feeling like there was something going on under the radar…  With that in mind, can I challenge you to keep praying for the Five?  We would really appreciate your prayer…  

So, we were picking up in the series Raw Worship, where we take a look at what happens when worship and life collide.  We were in Psalm 130 last night and we were taking a look at what does it mean to worship God in and through the waiting?  As always we look forward to and encourage questions/comments, here are this weeks…

You mentioned that you are tired of all the “smallness”, referring to what we wait for God to do.  What encouragement and assurance do we give to those God calls to do the boring, unpopular, uncool, and truly small tasks?

This specific comment was made by me while we were discussing the concept of hoping in the Lord.  What I was referring to was how I feel that we as the Church for the most part do not expect God to do incredible things.  I think that instead what we expect from God is for Him to show up and do small things (as I mentioned); pay the mortgage, make sure that the budget is met… etc… See here’s what I mean… Why are we shocked when we hear stories about how God provides miraculously… As if this was like an unbelievable feat for God to provide?  I mean honestly, this is the God of the universe that we are talking about!  Why is the box that we think/allow God to operate in so stinkin small?  When we read verses like 1 Cor. 2:7-9, or Eph. 3:20. do we go, Man God is huge, or do we say, eh, God is pretty powerful I guess.   I realize that we can’t comprehend how HUGE God is… so, why then do we make Him so small?  Whew, I better stop here and actually answer the question before I turn this into a book…

The seemingly “small” tasks that we have the privilege to be responsible for are not just that: small and insignificant.  Those types of tasks may be uncool, unpopular, and even monotonously boring.  We would be sorely mistaken if we viewed God’s calling on our lives to be small and insignificant.  The gifts and talents that God uniquely gives each one of us are given to us in order that we can bring honor to God, and cause others to see God for who He is…  I don’t care if you are filling communion cups, or cutting the church lawn… Your role in this huge organization that God has established; The Church, is not insignificant.  You are vitally needed.  Paul was a hero for this cause… watch what he does here in Ephesians 4;

11 It was he who gave some to be apostles, some to be prophets, some to be evangelists, and some to be pastors and teachers,12 to prepare God’s people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up

13 until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ. 
14 Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of men in their deceitful scheming.15 Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ.

16 From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work. 

To the one who feels marginalized, underused, unimportant, small, insignificant, negligible, frivolous, and peripheral: You are incredibly important.  Your work may not be cutting edge, it may not be flashy and all that attention getting…  In fact you may not be thanked or praised much, if at all.  However, we work not for the approval of man.  We work diligently, unswervingly, whole-heartedly dedicated to the cause of Christ!  We sacrifice our time, efforts, talents, money, and everything else we have in order that we may see the Gospel go forward to just one more person.  The part you play is vital in the ministry of the Gospel.  Don’t you for one minute think that you are unimportant, expendable, or peripheral.  Just because your task may be borin, unpopular, or uncool, I don’t believe for one minute that it is small.  As a pastor I praise God for people like you. You are the types of people that allow me to do what I do.  (Go do a study on Acts 6:1:7)

To the one who submitted this question: thank you!  It is conversations like these that get me charged up to keep doing what I do, and to help equip others to keep doing what they do!  It really is all about Jesus.  It is about introducing more people to Him.  We are all charged with that mission… 

To those who have a public ministry, a flashy ministry, a lot of responsibility, get a lot of thanks because of the publicity of your position: Find three people today who are behind the scenes people; i.e. The counters, the janitors, the lawn maintenance guy, the one who changes the sign out front, the one who folds and stuffs the worship guide… THANK THEM FOR WHAT THEY DO!  CHANCES ARE YOU WOULDN’T BE ABLE TO DO WHAT YOU DO IF IT WASN’T FOR WHAT THEY DO!  

Who do you see in your church that is a great example of an unnoticed servant?  Share their story!  Click on the comment button below and let it rip…  Let’s encourage one another…  

Thankful for those behind the scenes people…

~Peter

I remember as a child wanting a dog.  I always wanted a dog.  But we lived in New York City, and I don’t blame my parents, I wouldn’t have gotten me a dog either if I was them!  Seriously, walking it in the city, and all that stuff… Come on… that’s a no brainer.  But when we moved, I knew that there was a dog coming our way.  See, we moved to the burbs, of Philly.  With a fenced in back yard and a pool and all, we were set for a dog.  

My parents loved me.  They loved me a lot.  But they still didn’t get me a dog until I was 12.  I waited.  12 whole, long years.  That was not fun.  But I waited.

What was the hardest thing that you have ever had to wait for?  What do you think about while you are waiting?                  

Let me give you a hint, the hardest thing that I’ve had to wait for has not been the dog…  What about you?   

~peter

As I am writing, I am in Waxahachie Texas at my parents house.  I took a day off, and headed down south to spend some time with my mom and my sisters.  It has been eight months since we said goodbye to my Dad.  These have been some of the most difficult months that we as a family have gone through.  God has been good, and He has lovingly shown us His peace, His mercy, His grace, and His amazing care for us.  I have been so blessed to have a dad like my dad.  

I was reading on the plane ride here to Texas, all while trying to keep my arms from touching either of the “elmo-esque” furry arms that awaited me on either side.  I was finishing up the book, “Next Generation Leader” by Andy Stanley.  There are several amazing lines in this book, but one stood out to me.  It feels right to share it with you…

“The question is: Have you determined what you want to become?  Your doing will flow from who you are.  The outer man will reflect the inner man.  The inner man determines the legacy of the outer man.”  

Many of you who read this blog did not have an opportunity to meet my dad.  There are a few things that I have learned about my dad since he has gone to be with the Lord.  I knew that my dad was a man of God, but I didn’t know just how much!  His legacy has left an incredible mark on my life, and the lives of so many.  There was a time when he determined… when he set before himself, his wife, and his family that he was going to follow and serve God no matter what the cost.  His inner man was set.  He was sure.  His outward actions reflected his inward convictions.  He knew he was to be a man following God’s leading.

Have you determined what you want to become?  It’s not to late.  It’s never to late.  What is the condition of your inner man?  Is your outer man truly reflecting your inner convictions?

 

As I look ahead, I know that the single most important thing that I can do is to set before myself convictions that I believe that God himself has placed on my life, and follow them with all that I have.  

What about you?

hmmm….

~Peter

Today I am headed down to Texas for a quick jaunt to spend a few days with my mom and sisters and their families.  I am looking forward to that.  We will have a great time.  I will enjoy seeing them and my nieces and nephews..  It made me wonder, what was the farthest that you have ever traveled to see a family member?

 

 

 

~Peter

Well as promised, we have some answers to some of your questions…

Why r we blessed?

The Israelites, the priests and the God-fearers (Psalm 115:8-11) were blessed because they chose to put their trust in God. They trusted God to save them, to be their help, to be their shield. We are blessed when (because) we choose not to have any idols (Psalm 115:4-7). We are blessed when (because) we choose to remind others of the many ways that God has worked in our lives, and in so doing we tell them that we serve an awesome God.

 

In Psalm 115 what indicates the purpose?

The purpose of God blessing us is so that we will in turn be a blessing to others. When God blesses us, He expects that we will in response to His blessing, then bless the next generation by reminding them of how God has specifically blessed us. That’s why we need to build altars, stones of remembrance. We need to creatively and personally decide what those altars will look like.

 

Who r the People watching the Israelites? (Nations)

The people watching the Israelites were the nations who were the neighbors of Israel. At that time they were the Moabites, the Edomites, the Syrians, the Egyptians, the Ammonites, the Canaanites, etc. etc.

 

Who R the nations 2 Day?

The “nations” for us are all the people within our sphere of influence who we have contact with in our day-to-day existence. The nations for us are all the people around us (in our sphere of influence) who do not yet have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.

Keep the questions coming… Let’s carry the conversation beyond just Sunday Night!

~Peter

Hey guys,

SO, here’s the deal… I know that the last week was a little rough here.  When I checked this morning and realized that the last post was a whole week ago!  I am realizing that was a little pathetic!  Sorry…. So anyway, as you continue to check, I will continue to make sure that there are some new thoughts here…  

Last week was really fun.  I was getting ready for this Sunday’s sermon, and I am praying that God uses it in big ways in your lives!  I am getting really excited about it, and for it!  Seriously!!!  I am so thankful for every opportunity that I get to stand before you guys and share with you what God is teaching me and showing me…  Thank you for letting me!

A couple things that also really excite me today…  

1.  I almost welcomed our head elder/Five regular attender/incredible lasagna maker/all around cool guy to Twitter…

2. Reading “In the Name of Jesus: Reflections on Christian Leadership”

3. Almost welcoming Tiffany/my wife to Twitter…

4. Looking forward to heading out to Texas for a short but great visit with my Mom and sisters this Thursday-Saturday…

5. Waiting to hear about when we will close on our house…

6. Relistening to Francis Chan’s sermon: “Living a Life that Matters: Living with Jesus”  challenged me the first time, and I don’t want to forget it!

7. Still laughing about meeting Mr. Willy from Tennessee.  Loved that guy!  If you’re there on Sunday night at The Five, you might hear a few stories about our trip down south! 

I hope that you have as thrilling and exciting of a day as I expect to have!

~Peter

This week was definitely one to remember.  I have never shared the platform with a sheep before!  Last night was really a great time.  I hope that you also had fun.  

If you weren’t able to make the Five this week, jump over here and check out the podcast.  Here are a couple pictures for you to enjoy too!  I know that there are some really good ones taken by some of you, all you cell-photogs… If you have some photo’s to put up, try adding them over at the facebook page for the Five.  

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So, there was only  one question this week… and just one comment… 

1.  Peter you are so crazy!

Guilty as charged!  

2.  Is the sheep going to wear a V-Neck next week?

Next week, sadly the sheep will be at a different location.  Plus sheep don’t wear clothes!  Come on man… You know better than that!

I love being able to spend time with all you guys on Sunday Nights!  

~Peter