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Guess what, I’m not famous.  Chances are if you are reading this, you’re not famous either.  I wonder if we are honest with one another if we would say, ‘yes, I’d like to be famous though.’  I’ll bet you if we wanted to we could rattle off long list of famous people.  Why?  It is simply because we have a love affair with famous people and the lives that they live!  Do you know what is going on with Lindsey Lohan right now?  Have you heard about what the latest outfit Lady Gaga is wearing?  Do you know how many children Brad and Angelina have adopted or what is Snooki up to these days?

I’d be willing to wager a bet that you know a good bit of what is going on in celebrity culture.  It’s all around us.  It’s in the grocery stores at every check out, it’s in the convenience store, it’s accessible all over the web, and the online social networking giants Twitter and Facebook have made these celebrities feel like friends.  Twitter is equivelant to the glass in the zoo.  Instead of having a huge ditch the animal can’t jump across between me and it, now there is glass.  My face and it’s face can be pressed up against 2 inch thick glass, with each of us steaming it with our breath.  We are practically face to face with them.  We know where they are going, what they are doing, what they are drinking/eating, and what they are wearing.

Mark Driscoll was preaching on this in a sermon several months back called the truth and the lie in worship.  He talks about how we twist worship, and end up sinning by our blatant practice of celebrity worship.  I stumbled upon an interesting article today over at relevantmagazine.com.  It was called, The Insidious Cult of Celebrity.  It’s a great article, you should read it in full over here.  Here are two quotes for you.

The root of the issue, Craig Detweiler (author of Into the Dark: Seeing the Sacred in the Top Films of the 21st Century) believes, stems from our need to immortalize ourselves and our accomplishments. “I think the fault is that fame and celebrity enter the highest virtue in culture. It’s the closest thing to getting to heaven or eternal life,” he says. “In other words, James Dean, Marilyn Monroe and Elvis Presley are all eternal in pop culture, and so becoming a celebrity is the closest thing to eternal life outside the Church. I see a hunger for celebrity as a hunger for eternity.”

WOW!  I love that last part, “I see a hunger for celebrity as a hunger for eternity.”  MAN that is convicting!  Every single one of us was made as eternal beings.  Yet there are so many people who don’t understand what we were meant for!  I can promise you that increasing your twitter following, or the number of facebook friends you have is not that intended purpose.  The article goes on.

According to Hostetler, there are three things that have caused Americans to become so enamored with celebrityism: the longing for community, significance and glory. “We feel connected to celebrities even though they don’t know us. It’s almost that they become our friends, just like Rachel, Ross, Phoebe, Monica, Chandler and Joey became our friends even though we have no idea who these people are and what they’re really like,” he says. “It underscores the lack of community many of us feel. Obviously, all three [longings] are God’s will for us, but it’s not His will to find it in celebrity worship.”

God’s intentions were for you to be developing and growing in community, knowing and understanding your significance, and experiencing His glory.  People are looking for eternal fulfillment in all the wrong places.

What about you?  Do you hunger for eternity?

~Peter

Here are a couple interesting posts that I have come across this past week that I thought you might like.

1.  Barry Schwartz, The Paradox of Choice: This is one of the top ten Ted talks and I think if you watch it you will understand why.  Schwartz says that the more choices we have the harder it is to make them.  He says that choice does not make us freer, but actually has made us paralyzed.  It is a bit long I know, but it is 20 minutes well worth watching!

2.  5 Marketing Lessons from Mr. Rogers: How many of us grew up watching Mr. Rogers Neighborhood.  Probably tons of us.  The guys over at Fast Company blog put this post together and it is quite interesting.   Even if your not into marketing it says a lot about the kind of man that Mr. Rogers was.  This is a good read.

3.  Mario Piano Music:  Okay along with Mr. Rogers how many of us grew up with Super Mario Brothers?  The sound effects and music have become timeless.  So there is this guy who has figured it all out and scored the whole soundtrack.  Wow is all I have to say!  You can preview all of his tracks and download sheet music too.  This is cool stuff.

~Peter

Here are a few reasons why I know that fall is upon us!

  • I have been up in the attic rooting for boxes of ‘seasonal’ clothing…
  • We’ve added a second blanket on our bed! (I LOVE IT!  Welcome back!)
  • I am anxious to get our wood stove going.
  • I see fallen trees and I salivate.
  • The rake came out of the garage this weekend…
  • I planted some spring bulbs
  • My thermometer is reading 47 in the morning!
  • I’m looking forward to my first glass of Apple Cider.

And the most significant of all?

  • Dean turned the heat on in our offices!

I love summer, but I love fall too.  I’m looking forward to all of the things that fall brings!

What about you?  How do you know it is fall?

~Peter

Music is a funny thing.  Last night I found myself listening to Pavoratti, Josh Groban and various other classical types.  Then this morning I jumped in the car and listened to Fee.  Right now as I write I’m listening to Damien Rice.  There is a massive spectrum of music that my moods will guide me through.  I turn to different music at different times.

In the world of worship we encounter the same sort of thing.  We see many different flavors of worship presented to the world around us.  At times it feels to me like the style of worship rather than the quality or attitude is the most necessary credential when looking for a church home.  The spectrum of worship is so diverse!  The question is have we pushed it to far?

In Genesis 3:5 we see Moses in the presence of God and this is what God requires of him, “Do not come near here; remove your sandals from your feet, for the place on which you are standing is holy ground.”  Moses was in the presence of God and he needed to prepare himself to be in that position.  He was instructed to remove his filthy sandals.

Do you think that it is the spectrum of musical styles that would be problematic for God or the ways in which we approach him through those styles.

I would love to hear your thoughts on this.

~Peter

Community is defined as a feeling of fellowship with others, as a result of sharing common attitudes, interests, and goals.  The definition goes on to describe a sense of ownership and desire.  Have you ever felt apart of community?  Have you ever experienced community in such a rich way that you were better off because of it?

Community has become a central and vital role in my life.  I am apart of many different communities.

  • I have my closest community of the most important woman out there and two children.  We experience life together in the most common ways. My Family.
  • I have my close friends.  We laugh with one another, enjoy meals together, bring our families together, speak truth into one another’s life.
  • I have my community group.  This is the group of people from FBC that gather bi-weekly to talk, laugh, encourage one another, pray together, learn, and build one another up.
  • I have recently become a part of a scholastic community of men every week for seminary.
  • I have my neighbors.  Those people who live directly around me.  It has been a great joy in the life of our family to get to know them and be known by them.
  • I have a growing group of students.  I lead and pastor the youth ministry here at FBC, I am gratefully submerged into the community of junior high and high school students.
  • I am apart of a growing community of people online; here on this blog, on Facebook and Twitter.  Even if it’s only 140 characters at a clip, community can be found there.
  • I am apart of the local church body here at FBC.  My family and I fit under the umbrella of those who are inside the Christian faith.
  • Ultimately I am apart of the community of Christ and the Church worldwide.

Community runs through just about every aspect of my life.  It molds me, shapes me, and makes me who I am today.  I can’t avoid this.  How has community affected you?  What communities are you in?  Did I miss any?

~Peter

Google turned 11 on Monday.  That’s crazy.  I remember when google stock went through the roof!   I remember the internet explosion.  Now google has gone from a noun to a verb.  So it made me think.  I remember when I was a kid having a swatch watch, and it was a big deal.  It’s funny though as times change and the world grows up certain things fade away; Chat rooms, Pay phones, Netscape, Floppy Disks, 411 and many other things.  With cell phones being in the pockets of most breathing human beings, do you still wear a watch or has it just become redundant and obsolete?  The last time you asked what time it was did the other person pull out their cell phone or did they did they check their wrist?

SO, Let’s see…

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And what other things have become redundantly obsolete, or have just disappeared over time?

~Peter

***Update:  The results are in (although you can still take the poll if you haven’t already)  it is as I thought, a bunch of you don’t wear watches at all.  Some of you don’t even own one!  Almost as many of you that own a watch only wear it as a fashion accessory.

Redundancy is a funny thing.  I wonder what will come out next that makes something that seems so normal to us today seem so redundant then!

I am certainly behind the eight ball on this one.  I have neglected to share with you about an awesome resource and a very powerful book that has recently come out.  This is none other than the book by Pastor/Author Pete Wilson.  If you or a friend are going through difficult painful times I would highly recommend you purchase this book for yourself or as a gift.  Even if everything is going great, I would recommend that you get a copy of this book and read it!  There is a ton of great stuff in this book to think about.

In this book Pete gets to the heart of some of the deepest most painful situations that life can throw at you.  He is pointing anyone who is going through difficulties to “the God who keeps his promises.  The God who is with us every moment and is in the process of working all things for good.”  Pete promises no answers for these difficulties yet offers some great thoughts to think about while in those difficulties.

Pete writes, “I’ve wanted to usher people down a path of sudden and painless spiritual transformation when in truth there is no such path.”

I highly recommend this book.  Check it out.

What are you reading that I must?  Have you read this yet?

~Peter

It feels to me like time is stuck on cruise control.  And the pedal was jammed against the floor when it was set!  This past Saturday was Noah’s 5th birthday.  I feel like it could have been 3 or 4 weeks ago when we first brought him home from the hospital.  As we left the hospital both Tiffany and I were waiting for them to say, “No, you are way to young to drive this baby home.”  I was halfway tempted to make a T-shirt that said I’m older than you think!

5 years ago this little kid came into our lives and made a beautiful mess out of me!  I am so thankful for him and the ways that he challenges me to be a better husband, father and man.  It is crazy how much you learn about yourself when you get married.  It’s even crazier how much you learn about yourself once you have children!

I am looking forward to the next 5 years!  It’s gonna be awesome!

This video feels like yesterday!

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~Peter

Yesterday has come and gone.  Sunday’s clock has ticked it away into a memory.  We are onto Monday, which will shortly be over too.

Yesterday people gathered in their churches and gatherings in order to hear instruction from the Bible, to fellowship, to serve, and to worship God.  Some would say they even came for the coffee and donuts…  Some don’t even know why they came.

Many of our worship gatherings were well thought out and planned by worship pastors and leaders.  They are well rehearsed and neatly packaged sections of our Sunday.

Here’s the deal though.  I think we all can agree that the singing portion of our morning isn’t the only part of worship.  If not check out Romans 12:1-2 and then let’s talk.  So my question is why do you worship?  How do you define worship?  Is it something that you do because a guy behind a guitar started singing?

Have you fallen into the worship trap?  The concept of ‘I’ll worship You when You pull through.’  I’ll give you my love, attention, sacrifice, and my life when I can see that you give a rip about me.  Well what about when it seems like God doesn’t give a rip about you.  Do you stop worshipping God?

This disturbs me: Exodus 4:31, “So the people believed; and when they heard that the Lord was concerned about the sons of Israel and that He had seen their affliction, then they bowed low and worshiped.”

See that?  It was quick.  It was one word, THEN.  Only after seeing that God gave a rip for them did they THEN worship Him!  This is unfortunately a trap that has not become outdated, extinct or uncommon.  Even though the Exodus of the Israelites was thousands of years before this moment, the concepts in this verse are no less familiar to me.

When is your worship the sweetest?

When is it the most intense?

When is it the most regular?

I wonder if we are really honest with ourselves how often do we put that one word, THEN, in our worship.  I’d like to call a vote to eliminate the word THEN from our worship vocabulary.

~Peter

I love music.  I enjoy making music, listening to music, and finding new music.  I happened to catch a portion of MTV’s Video Music Awards two weeks ago (the VMA’s).  I have been on the fence about a particular artist until recently.  I’m talking about none other than Taylor Swift.  It sealed the deal for me when several weeks ago now she included one of my favorite pastors, Pete Wilson and his family in her most recent video.  Check that story out here.

I happened to be watching during Taylor Swift’s performance.  It was unreal.  She did an incredible job.  The message she was sending was huge!  Since MTV has taken all of the video’s down from youtube all I have is the audio from her performance.  Listen to this song.

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Regardless of you know what happened in 2009 during the VMA’s or not(Kanye West!), this song still speaks profoundly.

Some of us feel like Taylor is singing about our lives.  Maybe you’ve lost your balance on a tightrope.  Maybe you’ve blown your relationships with everyone around you.  Maybe you’ve cursed your family out and left them behind without a care.  Maybe you’ve gotten yourself  chemically dependent on some thing or another.  Perhaps you’ve given parts your sexuality away to people it was never intended for.  Guilt can set in and just about wreck a person and cause them to feel worthless and alone.

Jesus knows about this and took care of this problem.  See the reality is that every single one of us has ‘blown it and left ourselves in the warpath.’  We’ve all ‘lost our balance on the tightrope’ of life.  Jesus died on a cross, was buried as every other dead man is, and unlike every other dead man He rose from the dead!(1 Corinthians 15:1-4)  Because of that one action you and I have a hand back up on the tight rope.  We have been picked up out of the warpath and placed in safety.  Forgiveness is here for you.  Hope is here for you.  Restoration is here for you.  True life is here for you.

I watched as a young woman in the spotlight demonstrated forgiveness on national television.  I listened to a musical narrative that made me immediately think of the one who is in the business of forgiveness; Jesus Christ.

~Peter