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Today I spent time with another lady other than my wife.  I’m telling you it was great.  Here’s the crazy part, it was even endorsed by my wife.  A lunch date with another woman.  Okay, truth be told, it was a little woman, none other than Grace Madison Gowesky.  We were having a daddy, daughter date.

Before heading out on our date I had tweeted this, “Taking Grace on a lunch date. Its gonna be all fairies, princesses and ponies.”  It wasn’t far from all that.  We had a great time together.  I asked her questions and then just listened.  I spent time listening to the one in our house who probably uses the most words but gets listened to the least, being the youngest.  It was fun to hear some of the things she said.

I asked her what made her happy… Man that response was awesome.  “Being on a date with Daddy.”  After wiping away the tear, I quickly responded with, “any other guy that wants to take you on a date has to go through me!  You got it?”  She said her favorite princess is Tiana.  Why you may say?  “Because she wears a green dress, and it’s my favorite.”  I asked her what she likes to do, “Color, dress up, pretend”  The conversation flowed much like that.

We sat and enjoyed time together.   It was quick, too quick, yet it was really good.  I sat and listened.  I became a student of my daughter.  I wanted to see what it was that made her tick at this point in time in her life.  It all could change by tomorrow and that’s okay.  Tomorrow her favorite princess could be Sleeping Beauty, she could hate coloring and love playdough.  Then tomorrow I’ll need to become a student all over again.  I learned a lot.  Plus we had a great time for enjoying lunch for $4.01.  (Bj’s hot dogs!)

For a brief moment in time I understand Grace, and she understands one thing for sure; I’m her daddy and I love her and think that she is beautiful and amazing just the way she is.

So here’s the question… Who in your life do you need to become a student of?  What questions should you be asking, and who should you be listening to?

~Peter

 

This past week I have been focusing on Psalm 51 and learning what it means to meditate on the word of God.  I have been doing this for one of my classes at Biblical Seminary called “Formation and Mission”.  The project at hand was to learn two new spiritual disciplines and put them into practice in our lives.  Our group choose simplicity and meditation.  Before you start getting all up tight thinking I’ve become too eastern or anything understand that meditation for a Christian is far different than any other form of meditation.  Richard Foster in his book “Celebration of Discipline” explains it like this:

“Eastern meditation is an attempt to empty the mind; Christian meditation is an attempt to fill the mind.  The two ideas are quite different.  Meditation of Scripture centers on internalizing and personalizing the passage.”

After practicing this discipline for a few short days, I have really appreciated the discipline.  Now, on to the good stuff.

As I mentioned our group chose meditation, and we chose the passage of Psalm 51 to meditate on.  One of the coolest things that I came across after meditating on this psalm was verse 10.  Listen to how the Message paraphrase puts it.

“God, make a fresh start in me,
shape a Genesis week from the chaos of my life.”     Psalm 51: 10

Can you imagine what that would be like?  We know that Psalm 51 is a psalm of David that was written after he had an affair with Bathsheba.  His life is wildly out of control and he was chasing after the desires of his own heart at this time.  Then brokenness hits him.  The reality of what he had done has struck him in the face through the prophet Nathan.  David begins to pour his heart out to God in repentance in this psalm.

Have you had seasons or decades in your life where you were like David?  Okay, maybe not running around spying on naked women from your roof, but maybe you were living a life that was wildly out of control and seeking after the desires of your own heart.  Can you resonate with the words of David?  I can.

I love the beauty in the way the Message put it; “shape a genesis week from the chaos of my life.”  That’s powerful!  A genesis week, the week when all that we know to exist was created.  Shape it from the chaos in my life!  Wouldn’t you love to turn over your life’s chaos and have it shaped into something beautiful?

I know I would.

~Peter

Check out this video by Gungor called “Beautiful things”

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A while back I shared with you that my sister and her husband are moving their family overseas to Bangladesh to serve the people of Bangladesh and bring the light of Jesus Christ to a very spiritually dark and dimly lit country.  Well when I first shared with you about their aspirations and desires they were somewhere around 8% supported.  It excites me to share with you today that they are 100% supported!  They have received 100% of their travel expenses as well as their monthly support.

It has only been 51 days and they have received all of their financial commitments.  THIS IS INCREDIBLE!  GOD IS AMAZING!  It is exciting for me to watch God provide and take care of them.  51 DAYS!  You can follow what they are doing over at their blog, www.thelongfamily.org, I would ask you to subscribe to their blog, or check regularly, pray for them as they head out, join their prayer team.  Their is no doubt in my mind that God is going to use them in incredible ways!

Check out their latest blog post here.

To learn more about their ministry there check out this video here.

~Peter

The other day Noah and I were building with blocks and I began to question him what it was exactly that we were building.  A lot of times we just build for building’s sake.  Good times had by all.  This time he was persistent to get it just right.  We put up the four walls and then added two slanted pieces to simulate a roof line.  The walls were tall, towering, and void of windows.  Their was one way in, no way out.  Their was a parking lot and a prefered parking space near the door for the wealthiest individual.  All of the people were sitting in a straight row in the very back of the facility.  Then there were 4 people on the opposite wall, they were all standing.

I got really curious and asked him what we were building and who all of these people were.  He responded with this is a church.  These are the people, and this is the worship team.  (I had to help him with the term worship team, that wasn’t natural, but they were clearly defined in his mind.)  Church through the eyes of a 5 year old

I watched as he carefully and intentionally positioned people, and blocks.  He was sure that he was building the church.  In reality he is.  This looks a lot like our churches, right?  What if we looked at the book of Acts and the early church?  Would we come to the same architectural structure?  What about the placement of people, would that be the same too?  I doubt it.

However, by the time Noah turned five he has a pretty good idea of what the church in the west looks like.  I hope that when I am building blocks with Noah’s children that maybe the face of the church would look a little different, a little more like a group of people huddled together rather than neatly lined up in a row.  Maybe it would be in a facility of some sort, just not so predictable.  Can you imagine church being any different than it is now?  Should it look a little different than it does now?  What do you think?

Oh by the way, Woody and Army Man stopped by because they heard the wonderful music inside.  They said they weren’t really into the whole God thing, so they sat in the balcony that day.

~Peter

Can you spot all of the things that are messed up with Noah’s form of church?  Tell me what you see.

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Everyone of us is made up of certain habits and practices… We allow these habits and practices to define who we are and the make up of our personality, character, etc.  As this is true in life, the same is true in our relationship with Jesus Christ.  We simply cannot pin our mediocrity on the fact that Jesus does not want to know us or be known by us.  It comes down to what do we do in order to be connected to the living Christ?  Each one of us have some spiritual discipline or another.  Today I want to know, what are yours?

~Peter

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I feel like a squirrel getting ready for winter.  I am on a firewood collection rampage because this winter I will heat my house solely with wood.  It worked last year and I am excited about not having to pay an oil bill again this year!  I am hoping to have around 8 cords of wood for this winter.  You never know what old jack frost is going to throw at you!  Yesterday I spent the entire day hauling, cutting and splitting.  I am determined to be ready, to be prepared!  I have a method and a plan laid out in my mind as to where I am going to stack it, which pile I’ll pull from first and so on and so forth.  This winter we should be sitting pretty.

My small group that I’ve been meeting with for about a year now has been doing a study that really encourages scripture memory.  It has been a good practice to engage our mind and dive heavily into the word of God.  It seems to me that their is a striking resemblance between my wood cutting and gathering tactics and scripture memory.  Both of these tasks are storing up for later benefit!  I have found great personal benefit in memorizing scripture during the process for sure, but an even greater benefit when it comes back to my mind at appropriate moments.  Check out what Proverbs 2:2-5 says,

2 Tune your ears to wisdom,
and concentrate on understanding.
3 Cry out for insight,
and ask for understanding.
4 Search for them as you would for silver;
seek them like hidden treasures.
5 Then you will understand what it means to fear the Lord ,
and you will gain knowledge of God.

Some things are desirable to know, but these things must be known!  Is there a better way to tune in to wisdom or concentrate on understanding than to have it running through your heart and mind?  Gather as much as you can!

Have you spent any time memorizing scripture?  What hidden treasures have you found?

~Peter

I could go the rest of my life without having another ice cream cone.  I could die a happy man never having had another milk shake.  To not taste the cold teeth chilling frozen nectar of the cow would be just fine with me.  It is no secret, I am a fan of salty foods.  I can pass on a chocolate bar of any variety, but a bowl of chips, not so much.  My weakness is salty foods!

I’m a salt guy.  Some of you are sweets, I’m salts.

This past saturday night we were with some friends and our families were hanging out sharing a meal together.  After the main course, we finished up the meal with a cup of coffee.  A delightful treat if you ask me.  So I got up to go fix my cup of coffee and another well known fact is that I am not a black coffee drinker.  I love coffee, but it has got to have scream and sugar in it.  I was making the perfect cup of coffee, I stirred it all up and then I was going in for the test.  The sweet, hot, belly warming cup of joe was ready to satisfy when all of a sudden my taste buds screamed at me, ” WAIT, STOP, GO NO FURTHER, THIS IS NOT WHAT YOU THINK IT IS!”  I had “sweetened” my coffee with none other than 2 tsp of salt!

I can’t tell you how quickly I spat that out of my mouth.  It was a matter of seconds.  It was disgusting, and revolting.  Have you ever had a moment like this, where something tastes so bad that the only thing you can do is spit it out of your mouth?

It’s funny to me, that salty coffee invoked a response of immediate propulsion from my mouth.  It’s just coffee, it’s just a bad taste, it has no significant life altering ramifications attached to drinking it. I was not in danger.  I just flat out couldn’t stomach it.

In the book of Revelation God tells John to write this message down.   To a specific church in Laodicea he says, “I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot; I wish that you were cold or hot.  So because you are lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of My mouth.”  God is saying you are lukewarm, you have a lazy faith!  This kind of a thing drives me nuts!

I totally get what God is saying.  It’s kind of like Salty Coffee.

~Peter

Okay so we all remember that trite rhyme,

“First is the worst,

Second is the best,

and third is the one with the hairy chest.”

That is the dumbest thing I have ever heard.  First off, it had to have been written by a consistant loser.  No one in their right mind thinks that second place is the best.  That has got to be the worst feeling of all.  You know in the olympics the guy on the lowest block (bronze) is praising God that he got on the block at all, the guy on top (gold) is feeling like the king of the world, and then there is the second place guy.  He is without fail always ticked at being in second.  But, according to this “cute” rhyme, he is the best.  Hmm… I think not!

Am I all alone here?

Help me with this one.  Have you ever been in second place?  How about fourth?  What about 354th?  Yeah.  Me too.  How about when you don’t make the team, and you weren’t one place away from making it but more like three or four places away from making it.  Or the promotion is open in your office and you throw your name in the ring with a fair level of expectance that you will get it and BOOM the guy from the copy room is now your boss.

How do you deal with the times when you best just doesn’t seem to be enough?  I focus on two things.

The first is: Do not let pride gain any ground in your life!

Pride can ruin a person.  Pride will convince you that you are better than they are, stronger than they are, prettier than they are and far more competent than they are.  The Bible says that pride leads to destruction!  Check out what 1 Peter 5:6 says…

“Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you at the proper time.”

I love Proverbs 4:23-26…

“Watch over your heart with all diligence, for from it flow the springs of life.  Put away from you a deceitful mouth and put devious speech far from you.  Let your eyes look directly ahead and let your gaze be fixed straight in front of you.  Watch the path of your feet and all your ways will be established.”

I love this because this is what happens when you become arrogant and proud.  You start shooting off your mouth, or belittling the person or group of people who beat you out.  I love that line, “let your eyes look directly ahead and let you gaze be fixed straight in front of you.”  That is focus.  That is intention.  That is get yourself back in gear, pick yourself up off the ground and get going again.  Pride won’t ruin that kind of determination.  Your timing is usually never God’s timing.

The second is: Commit it to God.

I don’t know what it is, I don’t care.  Whatever effort you are putting forth commit it to God: your relationships, your teammates, your marriage, your school work, your employment, your family, I don’t care what it is, give it over to God.  Check out the rest of 1 Peter 5:7…

“casting all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you.”

Give it up.  Don’t give up the dreams and goals.  Give up the extraneous effort and wasted sleep over those very difficult moments.  Give it up and give it over.  Take a few steps back and breath.

Do the best you have with the time, and resources you have and trust that God will use it to accomplish His plan!

~Peter

A little bit ago I blogged about Noah’s first day of school, and how grown up that little man is getting.  Yesterday Tiffany caught some really funny stuff on video.  Here is the background story:  Noah has a great teacher in school, as evidenced by this video.  He is learning a ton of things.  He loves music, he loves gym, he loves creative times, and all of the other activities that happen at school.  He came home from school yesterday and wanted to “Teach” his little sister Grace all of the things that he has learned.  Make sure and pay attention to Grace throughout the movie too.  She is just as funny if not funnier!

Man they are going to love me when they get older!  This stuff is priceless!

~Peter

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Guess what, I’m not famous.  Chances are if you are reading this, you’re not famous either.  I wonder if we are honest with one another if we would say, ‘yes, I’d like to be famous though.’  I’ll bet you if we wanted to we could rattle off long list of famous people.  Why?  It is simply because we have a love affair with famous people and the lives that they live!  Do you know what is going on with Lindsey Lohan right now?  Have you heard about what the latest outfit Lady Gaga is wearing?  Do you know how many children Brad and Angelina have adopted or what is Snooki up to these days?

I’d be willing to wager a bet that you know a good bit of what is going on in celebrity culture.  It’s all around us.  It’s in the grocery stores at every check out, it’s in the convenience store, it’s accessible all over the web, and the online social networking giants Twitter and Facebook have made these celebrities feel like friends.  Twitter is equivelant to the glass in the zoo.  Instead of having a huge ditch the animal can’t jump across between me and it, now there is glass.  My face and it’s face can be pressed up against 2 inch thick glass, with each of us steaming it with our breath.  We are practically face to face with them.  We know where they are going, what they are doing, what they are drinking/eating, and what they are wearing.

Mark Driscoll was preaching on this in a sermon several months back called the truth and the lie in worship.  He talks about how we twist worship, and end up sinning by our blatant practice of celebrity worship.  I stumbled upon an interesting article today over at relevantmagazine.com.  It was called, The Insidious Cult of Celebrity.  It’s a great article, you should read it in full over here.  Here are two quotes for you.

The root of the issue, Craig Detweiler (author of Into the Dark: Seeing the Sacred in the Top Films of the 21st Century) believes, stems from our need to immortalize ourselves and our accomplishments. “I think the fault is that fame and celebrity enter the highest virtue in culture. It’s the closest thing to getting to heaven or eternal life,” he says. “In other words, James Dean, Marilyn Monroe and Elvis Presley are all eternal in pop culture, and so becoming a celebrity is the closest thing to eternal life outside the Church. I see a hunger for celebrity as a hunger for eternity.”

WOW!  I love that last part, “I see a hunger for celebrity as a hunger for eternity.”  MAN that is convicting!  Every single one of us was made as eternal beings.  Yet there are so many people who don’t understand what we were meant for!  I can promise you that increasing your twitter following, or the number of facebook friends you have is not that intended purpose.  The article goes on.

According to Hostetler, there are three things that have caused Americans to become so enamored with celebrityism: the longing for community, significance and glory. “We feel connected to celebrities even though they don’t know us. It’s almost that they become our friends, just like Rachel, Ross, Phoebe, Monica, Chandler and Joey became our friends even though we have no idea who these people are and what they’re really like,” he says. “It underscores the lack of community many of us feel. Obviously, all three [longings] are God’s will for us, but it’s not His will to find it in celebrity worship.”

God’s intentions were for you to be developing and growing in community, knowing and understanding your significance, and experiencing His glory.  People are looking for eternal fulfillment in all the wrong places.

What about you?  Do you hunger for eternity?

~Peter